Freedom and Gratitude

Once you read enough stories from an author, it becomes decently clear that they have a certain style and will default to writing from a certain perspective. In my opinion, erotica is where this kind of predictability bleeds through the most. Usually, after going through around three of any writer’s stories, you know the basic beats all of their stories will take.

Shortly after discovering this, I wanted to make sure I didn’t fall into that trap. I was halfway through writing Being More Social when I first had this thought, and after I started The Good The Bad and the Molly I looked for similar tropes. The Eerily Smart Girl, the Asshole Protagonist Who Is Self-Aware But Also Not, a world where romantic/sexual jealousy is noticeably weirdly absent, etc. I got frustrated with my own writing style for a long time there, which was why shortly after starting GBM I took a break from writing for about six months, which was definitely an attempt at career suicide in retrospect.

I feel like this is something I’ve had to be constantly aware of, and as soon as I forget, my stories fall back into the soup of sameness. Same types of characters, same atmosphere, same general outlook of the protagonist – after all, it’s written from the same author’s perspective, and there’s only a certain amount any human being can imagine another viewpoint. I don’t think any writer can fully successfully transform their thinking into someone else.

Is this a bad thing? I don’t really know. On the one hand, if you like those three first stories you read from a particular erotica writer, score. You basically have a guarantee you’re going to like every story of theirs unless you specifically like new stories. And a lot of people are on erotica sites to masturbate and leave. If you find a story by a particular author that you find hot, and you find the second story hot for the same reason, people aren’t thinking, “Oh, well, it’s the same type of hotness, I should jack off to something new.” No, they’re instead thinking, “Fuck yes.”

On the other hand, a lot of writers can write themselves into a corner. I’m trying to stay well connected in the online erotica writing world, and I know several authors who are known for writing supernatural stories or incest stories or mind control stories, as a singular genre. Plus, they’ve been doing it for years. If they start something different now, at best it’ll very likely be unpopular. At worst, people will get mad – I’ve seen that before and it’s not pretty.

So at this time, after basically saying in my last blog “if you’re a fan of me you’ll have to be patient,” I want to say in this one, to everyone who’s reading this or has supported me in one way or another: thank you so much. I feel a freedom to write in any way my mind chooses to go, and that doesn’t come easily when writing erotica online. It comes from having a very understanding and versatile reader base. I have you all to thank for that. I have an opportunity very few in this industry have, even if I could be doing “better numbers” if I successfully finished a piece every week and always made it about mind-controlled siblings or werewolves or something. I see you all, and appreciate you all. I might be late to respond to an email or a comment or something, but every response and sign of support leaves a mark on me that I can’t even fully express. Genuinely, thank you so much. I’ll talk to you all next week.

3 thoughts on “Freedom and Gratitude

  1. Awww, we love you too! My favorite aspect of your writing style is how you write so much more than sex, usually. I love the intelligence used to craft the story, no matter what the story is about. I love the way your story progresses, and I wouldn’t want you to desperately write stories that you yourself aren’t satisfied with. Your blog is amazing too, because it makes us feel valued. Because I read every week from my email, I rarely comment here. I chuckle whenever I see the heading which says, “Working on a deal’s a deal chapter 1.” I’m not anxious though, because I know that your stories are always worth the wait.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Obviously I enjoy your stories AND your style – if not there’d be no reason to keep coming back here hoping for a new one (don’t worry, I can wait).

    If there’s one pretty consistent theme I would identify in your writing, as I’ve seen it (and this is definitely a feature, not a bug) it’s around the issue of consent. That’s pretty front and centre in GBM but it’s also there in a lot of Being More Social and your shorter stories too, I think. That makes erotica even more challenging – it doesn’t exactly improve the mood if each party has to prepare a notarized document approving what they’re about to do before they do it – but as one of the most important issues in today’s society I’m glad someone’s facing the challenge.

    Come to think of it, that ‘notarized document’ is pretty much like a marriage certificate. Perhaps our forefathers knew a bit more about what they were doing than we generally suppose!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. I think you have a few tropes, but they’re subtle. All of your stories revolve around female empowerment and explicit consent. Tyler and Nicole are the ones that have cars and drive for the protagonists, they’re autonomous and in control. All three people Adam sleeps with are instigated by the girls. In GBM, the entire story revolves around consent and redemption as a result of violating consent.

    Even when writing from Phil Love’s perspective, you had to justify his behaviour (as seen previously from Adam’s perspective) by introducing Olivia – a girl that has a kink for consensual non-consent.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply to homefiremusic Cancel reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s